I’m in the healthiest relationship...
with myself! 😊
It’s been a 2 year journey...
I work on me, daily.
Mentally, physically, spiritually.
Which brought me the healthiest relationship romantically.🥰 It’s weird...to be heard, accepted and loved for EXACTLY who I am. But it’s because I listen to myself.
And trust myself.No more outside validation.
I accept myself.I am completely myself. For once.
No more asking to be chosen. I choose me
Self love sounds so cliche. It’s a practice.
And I’m no pro by any means.
But that’s where it all starts.
That’s where that happiness we all are searching for begins. It begins with you.
Be okay riding solo. You don’t need a man. Or woman.
Don’t relationship jump.
Solo is where the growth begins.
I’ve always been in long term relationships that consumed me, caused me to lose myself and after the last one...
I needed a year to learn to be me, to heal, to grow, to give myself everything he wasn’t giving me.
And now I can accept the love I deserve.
Because I gave myself the love I deserve, finally.
It’s no ones job to save us, to love us, to want us...
that’s our job FIRST.
Now to have finally found a man who honors all of me. And doesn’t put me down but understands and respects everything about me. What a blessing. 🙏🏼 Inner work is messy. It’s ugly really.
Facing your demands. Your imperfections. You’re faults.
It’s not pretty but it’s needed to level up and to over come your bullshit. To stop settling in every aspect of life. It’s not an easy task. And if you can find someone who is doing that inner work too, well that’s magic. The magic of growing individually and together. 🤗
We all have that ready moment.. ready to stop running...stop looking for escapes...stop ignoring...stop doubting...
It just comes to us at different times.💙
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